Police have confirmed that Sara Gilson, a 43-year-old Oklahoma influencer, and her estranged husband, Jeremiah “Shawn” Duffey, 48, were found dead in a murder-suicide at Gilson’s home on July 23. The incident occurred shortly after Gilson publicly accused Duffey of being a pedophile in a viral TikTok post.
Part 1: Immediate Action & Core Facts
Newly released 911 dispatch audio reveals that a dispatcher heard a woman screaming and crying before a loud gunshot was recorded. Police responded to reports of a domestic violence situation and found both Gilson and Duffey dead from gunshot wounds. A child inside the home later called 911 to report that his stepfather had shot Gilson.
Part 2: Deeper Dive & Context
Background on the Relationship
Gilson had filed for an emergency protective order on June 10, alleging that Duffey was armed, suicidal, and a danger to her safety. The order required him to stay away from her residence during ongoing divorce proceedings. Records indicate she had previously filed protective orders against him in earlier periods of their relationship.
Allegations Against Duffey
Duffey was under investigation over allegations involving a 15-year-old girl connected to a youth basketball team he coached, according to police reports. Gilson’s July 11 TikTok post referenced these allegations, stating she was preparing for a documentary about her ex-husband’s alleged pedophilia.
Reactions from Family
Gilson’s ex-husband, Lyle Landers, told People that he had begged her for five years to leave Duffey, describing the relationship as abusive. He offered to help her escape the situation.
Investigation Details
Authorities confirmed that Duffey fatally shot Gilson before turning the weapon on himself. The incident remains under investigation, with no further details released about the ongoing probe into Duffey’s alleged misconduct.